What does "women's intimate health" refer to? The first
thing that comes to the mind is probably menstruation. But that
is not the end to it. I believe the phrase refers to the entire
female sexual health and the awareness regarding it.
As a kid, I was always curious as to why all kinds of foul words
had references to women even though no woman was remotely concerned to the
issue. I suppose it was because of the unawareness amongst the entire female
sex regarding the amount of insult and disrespect meted out to them. Or maybe, it
was because we were ignorant of the fact that we too have a voice
which can be raised.
The issue of women's intimate health is a very similar concept.
The various myths and embarrassment associated with it, the uncomfortable interactions
between the opposite sexes regarding the concept are important reasons for
the widespread ignorance.
Your body is your only home and it is the only thing that you
exclusively have for yourself and the knowledge of its functioning and
processes is of enormous importance. If you are not aware of how your body
changes as you undergo puberty or menopause, the way your body
behaves throughout you entire reproductive cycle, then who else will?
If you do not know what and when things go wrong or if there is at all a
problem, is it possible to find a solution to it? This is not a very small
issue and doesn't concern just one woman or two; there is a larger picture to
this. If you are not comfortable and proud of your own body, is your
empowerment ever possible? The whole concept of women's empowerment comes down
to just an idea and can never be achieved if women keep thinking that they are
not "pure" just because they are menstruating.
The age old myths which are passed from generation
to generation is one big reason here. Women are told that they are
not to talk or even go in front of the male members
of the house, keep to one room, not to go near the place of worship,
not to touch pickles and other preserved food, not to eat this, not to have fun
during their menstrual cycle. The list of DO NOTs doesn't end just there. The
situation gets even worse in the rural areas where women are even
confined and kept away from all the
other members of the house, locked in animal sheds and
close to toilets. The whole thing is not just inhuman but it is also
extremely unhygienic. It is highly shocking that only a paltry 7% of the
entire female population in our country uses sanitary napkins during
their cycles and the remaining bulk i.e. 93% uses other unhygienic things
like cloths and sometimes rags, dry leaves, straw, paper and at times just
nothing!! The chances of having various kinds of infections
and other reproductive and urogenital tract related diseases are extremely
high in such situations.
The awareness and knowledge of the female reproductive system is
very less amongst us, especially we Indians. Living is a patriarchal society,
the uncomfortable shifting and looks during sanitary napkin advertisements on
TV is a common sight in almost all homes. What is important in these situations
is that all the family members in the house are properly aware,
sympathetic and understanding and the women in the family should know that they
are to be proud of their body and not ashamed of it. By that I do not mean that
the women should go about announcing about the arrival of their cycles to the
world, it is necessary that the myths are busted and it is to be understood
that it is an absolutely "normal" procedure and you are not
"impure" because it is God itself who has made you like this and the
whole procedure of menstruation is an integral part of the entire
reproductive and hence, the living cycle. And it is NOT blasphemy if you
worship when you are menstruating.
The problem can be handled (if not entirely solved) in certain
ways-
1) There should be open discussions regarding the subject
including both boys and girls at the school level. If sex education can be
made compulsory at school level, reproductive health should also be
included in the syllabus. Pre-pubescent girls are to be told how they can
handle the changes when they arrive and who to seek help from in case of any
emergencies.
2) Hygiene camps (similar to medical camps) should be conducted in
the rural regions where men and women should be imparted the knowledge and
truths on the subject and how ignorance regarding it can affect the well being
of their family and its members.
3) The NSS and other social groups in colleges should
encourage students to take active part in discussions and be open-minded about
the subject. The youth should be made aware of the big picture and how
ignorance regarding the reproductive health can affect them
in the future. If you know anything, come share your knowledge. If you do not know anything, come and ask and get your
questions correctly answered from experts. The awkwardness
between the sexes in the contemporary youth is comparatively less
from the previous generations. These gatherings can be very beneficial as young
people are more comfortable discussing these issues with their peers than their
elders. So if some youths know, the knowledge will be passed on to more.
4) It is to be understood that this is a medical related issue and
not a personal one. Like any other disease or disorder, sexual problems are to
be cured. It should not be embarrassing to consult your
gynecologist if you have any problems. Women should understand that a
doctor is foremost a doctor and knows more than you about the problem
and the gender of the doctor should not matter here. You should be
completely honest and not ashamed of discussing your problems if
the gynecologist is a male doctor.
We have kept the topic of sexual health comfortably shoved under our rugs and maintained a hush hush about it till now. It is high time we open up and discuss about it freely with out embarrassment and shame. It is time the wall of awkwardness comes down and we are more comfortable being ourselves.
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