Sunday, October 2, 2011

Le bonheur éternel

For those who don't understand French (doesn't mean am an expert at it!! But I do understand a bit :P) the title means Eternal Happiness...
After a year long wait here it comes again!! Yay!! Wondering whats the source of my joy?? Well its Durga puja (or "pujo" as in Bengali, which happens to be my mother tongue) here and its a time for religious frenzy and eternal ecstasy for Hindus!! Well,am not a religious person i.e. I am spiritual but I don't believe in idol worship or religion. Despite the fact,the joy and reverberating enthusiasm that envelops the entire Bengal during this time won't let even atheists to escape, you can't help enjoying and being a part of the entire celebration!!


A li'l intro about it all- Durga Puja or Navaratri is the biggest celebration for all Hindus around the world,the celebration of Goddess Durga's (the ten armed Supreme Hindu Deity) victory over the demons in a battle for 9 days during which she takes different "roops" or forms to destroy evil. On the final day,she kills the king of the demons Mahishasura and establishes Good's victory over evil. It is believed that Maa Durga (or Mother Durga as we call her) comes to Earth,which is her parent's house from her heavenly abode for a visit for 9 days,returning on the 10th day, with her four children Kartik,Ganesh,Saraswati and Lakshmi (who also happen to be Hindu dieties). We mortals welcome her and celebrate her visit.


Now lets begin with the Devi Sutra-

Ya devi sarvabhuteshu, Shaktirupenasamsthita,
Namastastyai Namastastyai Namastastyai namo namaha "




I'll now detail how it is celebrated here in Bengal (the celebration is a bit different in different parts of the country). The arrival of Maa Durga is called "Mahalaya" ( the first day after the new moon) which commences the puja,but the actual or major celebrations don't begin before day 5 or day 6 in most places.  I'll start with Day 6 or Mahashashti (Shashti being number 6 in Bengali or Hindi)


Day 6 or Maha Shashti-
This is a very important day when ritual preparations are made to begin the Durga Puja proper. These preparations are mainly three:Kalparambha, Bodhan, Adhivas and Amantran.

Kalparambha : This ritual is done early in the morning.  It is mainly an act of making thesamkalpa or ''sacramental intention'', the firm determination to conduct the Puja properly during the three days.  The ritual consists of installing the ghata, water-filled copper pot, at a corner of Durga mandap and offering worship to Durga and Chandi.

Bodhan: This rite is performed at the Sandhya or dusk. The word ‘Bodhan' literally means ‘awakening'. The Hindu mythology holds that all gods and goddesses go to sleep for six months during the southward journey of the Sun.  Autumn (Sharat), during which Durga Puja is done, falls in the middle of this period.  Hence it is necessary to first of all awaken the deity Durga. The awakening of Durga was first done by Sri Ramachandra who wanted to propitiate the Goddess before fighting Ravana (as in the Hindu epic Ramayana).

The ritual of Bodhan consists in installing a water-filled copper vessel at the base of the Bel (Bilva) tree and praying to the Divine Mother to awaken.


Adhivas and Amantran : These rites follow Bodhan. Adhivas means ''invocation''. Through Bodhan the Devi has awakened: now the awakened Devi has to be invoked in the Bel tree or branch of the tree.  Adhivas is also a ritual of sanctification.  The actual ritual consists of the following main steps.

  1. Devi Durga and the Bel tree are first worshipped
  2. Twenty-six sacramental things (mangalik dravya) are sanctified by touching Devi Durga and the Bel tree with them.
  3. To ward off evil effects, a red coloured thread is tied around the altar where Puja is done.

The above ritual is followed by Amantran which literally means ''invitation''.  Through this rite the Devi is invited or entreated to accept the Puja the next day (Saptami). 

After this, Devi is worshipped with five items and Arati is done to Her.

Day 7 or Maha Saptami -
 A living medium is necessary to invoke the indwelling  of a deity.  It is through a living medium that Divinity manifests itself. On the sixth day Divinity was invoked in the Bel tree or a branch of it. On the seventh day the Deity is invoked in a group of nine plants known as Navapatrika. The nine plants, which include a branch of Bel tree also, are bundled together, given a ceremonial bath, covered with an orange coloured cloth and installed on a wooden seat on the right side of the image of Durga.  This is followed by Mahasnan (great bath) on a mirror, using various materials.  After this, consecration and divinization of the image, known as pranapratishtha, takes place.  This is followed by elaborate worship of the Devi with sixteen items (shodashopacharapuja).  The other deities, attendants and other objects associated with Devi are then worshipped.  The Seventh Day's Puja is concluded with bhog (food offering) and Arati to Devi. 


Day 8 or Maha Ashtami-

As on Saptami, on Ashtami also, Mahasnan and Shodashopacharapuja are done.  In addition, nine small pots with flags of different colours attached are installed and the Nine Shaktis are invoked in them and worshipped.  After this sixty-four yoginis are worshipped.  Then one crore yoginis are worshipped.  This is followed by worship of Nava Durga (nine aspects of Durga) and Goddesses Jayanti, Mangala, Kali, Bhadrakali, Kapalani, Durga, Shiva, Kshama, Dhatri, Svaha and Svadha.  Ashtami Puja is concluded with Bhog and Arati.

Kumari Puja :  Worship of a young girl, treating her as Devi, is also a part of Ashtami Puja.  Sri Ramakrishna has said that the Divine Mother manifests herself more in a pure-hearted girl and that is why Kumari Puja is done. He used to bow down before little girls looking upon them as manifestations of the Divine Mother. The same kinds of offerings made to the Devi are given to the Kumari also, and finally Arati is performed. Even senior monks offer flowers at her feet.


Sandhi Puja :  The last 24 minutes of Ashtami and the first 24 minutes of Navami (a total of 48 minutes between the two lunar days) constitute the Sandhi or ''Sacred Juncture''.  It is considered to be a most auspicious time.  At this time Durga is worshipped as Chamunda (that is, Kali who killed the demon Chanda and Munda).  This Puja is considered to be the highest point in the whole Durga Puja and the most important ritual.




It is customary to perform bali or animal sacrifice at this sacred juncture. This ritual is skipped at some places (as in Belur Math,India).


The Dhunuchi Naach (a dance by the devotees with ignited copra with incense in an earthen vase) is performed during this Arati .
 





The special food for this day are Luchi and Torkari (Luchi is deep fried bread and torkari means curry or a vegetable dish) in the morning and Khichuri (a mixed dish with rice,lentils and vegetables all stewed together) and bhaja (it literally means fried,in food it refers to fried veggies).


Day 9 or Maha Navami-
As in Ashtami, during Navami also Mahasnan andShodashopacharapuja are offered to Devi.  In addition,bali and Homa are performed.  The Homa (fire sacrifice) is a combination of Vedic and Tantric traditions.
Non Veg food is eaten on this day.




Day 10 or Maha Dashami-

In the morning a brief Puja, Shital bhog (cooling food offering) and Arati are first done.  Then the Pujari and Tantradharak circumambulate the altar and perform the visarjan ritual.  In this ritual the Devi, who had been invoked in the Navapatrika and consecrated Image, is entreated to return to Her celestial abode.  The Divine Mother, however, dwells for ever in the hearts of devotees.

In the evening the Image of Durga along with Navapatrika is taken in procession to the river bank and immersed in the river.  The water taken from the spot, known as Shanti Jal is sprinkled on the devotees who embrace one another as an expression of their solidarity as children of the same Divine Mother.  And thus the holy Durga Puja comes to an end leaving joyous memories in the souls of people.


Married women bid goodbye to the mother by playing Sindoor Khela (vermillion powder,which is a sacred symbol for all married Hindu women is used to color faces of each other and the goddess).



Well,thats all for now...Am going for some pandal hopping(pandals are huge decorated tents where the Images or idols of the Goddess are kept and worshiped,people go around hopping the city & watching all the pandal decorations & the idols,its great fun roaming with friends :D) . I'll come back with my Durga Pujo pics in my next post...Happy pujo to all!! Njoy :D

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Shoes Shoes & Shoes!!

This one is for my shoe fetish....the best part of being a girl...is that you never have to get monotonous with the regular jeans & t-shirts or shirts & trousers...you have a million variety of clothes to adorn yourself with...from dresses to sarees to salwar kameez to jeans to trousers to skirts ......there is a lotta variety to choose from..and with that comes shoes!! lovely shoes!! there r so many of them as well...so here the types that I love to wear...
I have this one in black...a pretty pair of flat sandals which look great with almost all kinds of clothes..
I have the same one..this is another flat pair of sandals which is ideal for keeping the sweat off from your feet in the summers. Has a back strap to avoid slipping off..
A pair of floaters is a must have for everybody. Its sporty,cool and very comfortable....looks good with a  pair of denims and your t-shirt...wonderful during the monsoon..low maintenance makes it a big favorite.
 
A simple yet pretty pair of flip flops is one good choice for the rains..but only if you don't mind these strapless ones to stain your legs or your denims with mud splashes when you walk!!
 
A cute pair of ballerinas are a good option for people like me who aren't really comfortable in heels but won't give up on style when it comes to shoes..these pretty shoes will make you feel like a ballerina !! come in plenty of colors..so get one with every dress that you have in your wardrobe..look best with summer dresses.. :D
 
And here comes my favorite!! Gladiators!! These are the shoes that are a must if you have a great calf to flash..The best thing about this type is that it comes in ankle to various calf lengths and also in the flat and heeled variety...choose the one you like...but do not make a fashion faux pas by wearing this one with you full length jeans...it will spoil the entire look...couple this one with a knee length dress,skirt ,a short leggings or capris and you look absolutely gorgeous.... remember you need to show you calf to flaunt this one perfectly.. :)

 



  A pair of pumps is a shoe that goes perfectly well with a gown as well as with the corporate look...pair them with a pencil skirt to break the monotony and dullness of the dress..my personal favorite are the peep toes....but these come only in  heels,so not a good option for people who are not comfortable with heels...sadly I don't have this beauty in my collection.. :( Comes a bit costly..so can't afford one just now..will get one later.. :D
 
Wedges!! these are another heeled vaierty but don't go with the height of heels..this beauty is very comfortable to wear...can be paired with almost every attire..just choose the correct type with the correct dress.. :D
A pair of sport shoes is another choice for those chicks whose first priority is comfort  when it comes to shoes ( like me!!)...these running shoes help keep your feet remain in perfect shape without compromising on style!!
 
 A lovely pair of converse shoes is a must in my kitty...I loooooooooooove wearing them...perfect for college goers...I love the colorful ones...multicolored... don't worry if you have a regular red or blue one..u can spice it up with colorful laces..that will add the extra bling :D
 
The next on my list is Boots!! They look stunning with short dresses or a dark blue jeans & a white T-shirt .


 


I saw some pics of Cameroon Diaz wearing  them and she looked beautiful in them..so thought of sharing them...

Last piece advice: Do not wear leather or canvas shoes during monsoon as they tend to have fungal growth during musty weather absorbing the moisture from the air...if you have to wear it anyway then do wear socks to avoid the fungus infecting your skin..
So go happy feet!! :D
P.S.-Sorry if I left any type..do let me know if you have any suggestions for good shoes.. :D


Saturday, September 10, 2011

Color me...

Well..this is the first time am trying to blog...so couldn't think of anything that i cud start with...suddenly this idea of writing about my favorite Nail Colors pops up in my mind...& I say..Y not?? So this is to all my pretty ladies who love coloring their nails...I believe your nail color is something dat represents the person you are..be it bold,subdued,classy..it defines all!! So here are my favorite colors...I have a few and would love to have plenty more.. :D


Holly: This is one of my favorite nail colors,looks absolutely stunning.
Black: This is the one color that every girl should posses for bringing out the emo in you. You can never go wrong with black...It is one color that will make you stand out everywhere :D Nothing better than a black nail color for the winters (or any other day!!)
Champagne: This is one color that goes with every outfit and perfect for everyday wear. Champagne Shimmer by Avon is an essential in my nail color list & I have 3 bottles of it.... :D I absolutely love this color.

Plum or Purple: This are colors that will always bring in a smile... simple adorable. Looks perfect with a cute summer dress and a pretty pair of gladiators :D

 
    
Brown: This is another favorite color of mine,be it the yummilicious chocolate brown or the shiny mettalic brown or the plain jane brown...I love them all...

Pink: Pink!! The favorite color of all women!! So splash it on your nails...from the bright shocking pink to the charming rose shimmer..it looks great on everybody ..
 

 
 
Blue: Go Blue!! Blue is my favorite color..be it blue dresses,blue t shirts, blue jeans, blue shirts,blue shoes, blue earrings,blue nail colors...name it...& I have it all...blue looks good with everything & on everyone..from robin blue to sky blue to turquoise blue to ink blue..I love all shades of blue...looks wonderful with your blue jeans and t-shirt for a casual look!!

Red: Ah!! Red is the color to bring out the classy lady in you...Cherry red, Cranberry, Bold red, .choose the one you like...makes you look the diva you are when paired with a cocktail dress and your pair of red pumps!!


And of course y keep it simple wen u can add motifs and wonderful patterns to your nails!! 
Here are some of the few that I really liked and which are quite easy to get done-
And for the last tip...girls do keep a color that is your favorite...something that you can always wear with anything..!! And don't forget to get wild sometimes...try the flashy colors as well!!